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PostPosted: Mon 6:05, 16 May 2011    Post subject: Jordan Spizike Counselling - How People in Love Be

your mate more sedentary and laid back, while you're more likely to try new things, to seek out adventure? If so, you're quite a normal couple. You're normal in the sense that you're attracted to a mate that has many traits that are vastly different than yours. These differences are often intriguing to us and provide variety. The hope for a successful marriage is that the different traits each person brings to the relationship will be complimentary. Unfortunately, this is often not the case. The traits that were once so admirable end up becoming annoying and the root of untold friction for the couple.
During the dating process,Jordan Spizike, most people are looking for a mate with complimentary traits to their's. This is normal. We're well aware of areas in our lives that we lack skill and competence. It's also safe to say that many of these parts of our life hold little interest for us. If a couple can learn to work cooperatively together, then each mate is appreciated for what they bring to the marriage.
Imagine for a moment an introverted person marrying an extrovert. The introvert likes how the extrovert initiates conversations and other activities they would be less prone to get involved in. They admire their confidence. Over time though,Fake Jordans How to be a much-sought-after Freelancing Editor, something vital changes. The relationship changes from one of mutual admiration to one of comparison and competition. In this example,Air Jordan Spizike, the introvert begins to view their spouse as competition.
It's been the introvert's desire for years to be more of an extrovert. During the dating process they wanted to be matched up with someone more out going than they were. The belief was that if they were with a more out going person, they would become more like them. Perhaps a bit of that extroverted nature of their spouse would rub off on them.
Now a strange dynamic exists. They are a couple now. When the introvert stands beside the extrovert, his/her introverted nature seems more apparent. It may not have changed. The problem is that their extroverted partner stands in stark contrast to them. Their insecurity about being introverted was a problem in the past. Now it seems like a bigger problem because of the close proximity of their extroverted spouse.
A dating or marriage relationship has serious problems when this situation exists. Competition kills community. Learning to commune in unity is the intended goal of community. For a marriage to be successful, a high degree of teamwork is necessary.
A trait that is now viewed as negative, was previously seen as admirable. The fact that nothing in life is really free,Jordan Cool Greys Just Enjoy Life - Scrapbooking I, is something the jealous mate will need to acknowledge and accept. A lot of effort will need to be put in if they long to have many of the admirable traits of their mate. It will be essential to try new ways of living that are uncomfortable at first. It will also be essential for them to learn how to appreciate their unique qualities.

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